What does it mean to be a disciple of Jesus? Once, when the crowds were following him around, Jesus turned to address them. He said to them three times, “You cannot be my disciple.” Why did Jesus speak so harshly? Let’s see what he said.
Luke 14:25-33
[25] Now great crowds accompanied him, and he turned and said to them, [26] “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. [27] Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. [28] For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? [29] Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, [30] saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish.’ [31] Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? [32] And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace. [33] So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.
Looking at the above passage, Jesus says that for anyone who would be his disciples, that person must do three things.
1. Hate their family
2. Bear a cross
3. Renounce everything in his or her life




